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Wednesday, 15 January 2025 - 08:16
I sometimes cry in my car all the way to work when I think of all the things he’s put me through over the years. Certain things just trigger memories. He’s ruined every single bit of my life. My happiness, my parenting journey, my social life, my mental health, my looks. Just everything, including...
Monday, 23 December 2024 - 04:34
I'm not sure what I'm hoping to achieve by posting this. I think I just need to get it out. I am so lonely. I have my 2 children, but otherwise I feel like I have no one. I will be spending Christmas morning with the kids, then they will be going to their dads. I have no one to visit. No one to...
Sunday, 1 December 2024 - 21:26
I would love some advice on a very sensitive subject I am going to change details for extra anonymity and keep it brief as possible. Primary school aged child is currently in foster care while case is going through the courts. Allegations are against dad for SA- I have seen this behaviour and am...
Sunday, 1 December 2024 - 09:52
I’m just about to sign consent orders which i feel are failing my 16 yo however he has chosen to live with his father. My only option is court but my son will be 18 by the time it goes through. The Father is financially, emotionally and mentally abusive and has alienated the children from me. Two...
Sunday, 1 December 2024 - 00:16
I have 3 children (12, 7 and 5) the 7 and 5 year old share the same father. The father and I were together for 6 years, during this time, he worked away and was rarely around or present in their lives, I have been the primary parent since the day they were born. Fast forward to now, we are now...
Thursday, 21 November 2024 - 20:53
Stress! I have extreme stress at the moment. Im talking high, high stress. I have my first psychologist appointment soon. But what are other ways to deal with stress levels this high? It’s caused by an ongoing problem that probably won’t be out of my life for years yet unfortunately. I can’t get...
Monday, 28 October 2024 - 16:07
My partner and I had a big fight and he’s blocked me. Bit of backstory, we don’t live together, but we see each other at least a few times a week, staying at each others houses. Relationship been great most of the time, especially as he’s had a traumatic upbringing and I’ve seen the horrible way he...
Tuesday, 22 October 2024 - 21:07
Has anyone ever done family counseling before? I want to go with my kids but unsure of what is involved? How it’s done etc? My kids have anxiety and behaviour issues and I’m just a mum who is blaming myself for it all! The fighting with their father, the getting mad at them then beating myself up...
Wednesday, 16 October 2024 - 14:54
I'll try and make this short and without sounding completely selfish. Married for 12 years with 4 kids. My husband has always been very emotional (paranoid, very low self-esteem, negative, cynical) and I have always been the opposite, but we've slowly figured each other out and it's no longer as...
Friday, 11 October 2024 - 07:45
Coercive control/ abuse continuing after divorce. Help please. After many years of verbal/ emotional abuse, I finally got up the courage 2.5 years ago to leave my abusive ex. He was only ever abusive to me, not my sons and the boys tell me he hasn't been abusive to them since. We have a parenting...
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