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Anon Imperfect Mum
More of a vent because I’m mentally exhausted. Been with my partner for 12 years. Got 2 kids together. Most of our relationship has been full of ups and downs. Sometimes I feel so frustrated and hurt by him and other times I feel really loved. Alot of the stuff he’s done never really made sense to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Have any of you left a long term relationship with a narcissist? How did you recover? How did you heal? How did you get your confidence and self love back? How did you get your memory back and heal the brain damage? Really need help with all of this right now! So sick of not being able to think or...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter is 8. She is diagnosed ADHD. She currently takes concerta in the mornings. At night she takes catapress and some melatonin. She's always angry or sad. She has anger outburst or is crying. She can not emotionally regulate. I'm exhausted. My parents who look after her during the week are...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How would you handle/solve this issue? (Sorry, might be a long one) Me, my partner and kids moved cities (better living, we were unhappy where we use to live and needed a good change) - this meant moving away from my family. It ended up causing a lot of issues and upset amongst my close family...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*trigger warning* This is long and complicated so thankyou in advance for reading and for any advice you may have. I (34f) am a part of a blended family. My partner (36m) had 2 children and I had 3 children and then we had 1 together so a busy home of 6 kids. His kids are with us part time around...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice needed Partners ex had started stalking us. To me it was messages and a visit to my work. To my partner it was messages of a sexual nature and leaving earrings at his house after going there when he wasn’t there. Now we don’t know for sure that it was her but this all started after he told...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey All!! Looking for my gym girls here!! I'm a Gym beginner!! Been a lot of years since I've been and now the kids are all at school I'll have some time again to start at the gym again. My question is, lol, what do you do at the gym? I don't know where to start! I was just going to go hit the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm 30 soon (crying inside) I started an office job a year back and gained some weight from sitting all day. I started to hate my body and knew I needed to start to loose the 3kgs I had gained. So I started that journey I wasn't dropping weight so I decided it was time to stop my anti anxiety meds...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions on great books I can read for self improvement. I have a history of sexual trauma from my teen years and shut it out for a long time blaming myself. As a Mum I thought it was time to go to therapy which I did for quite a few years. I’m now at the stage...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Edit: Thanks for telling me I'm doomed, that its just as simple as working more. We have NO repayments on anything, NO credit cards. My son is high needs so working more than I do is actually not possible right now. I'm paying thousands of dollars for assessments for him, no NDIS. Its freaking hard...